From tea ceremony customs to the practical details in between, the right support can make your wedding day feel far less overwhelming. If you're planning a Chinese wedding, you may have come across both a Wedding Chaperone (大妗姐) and a Wedding Day Assistant. They may both be there to “help” on your wedding day, but their roles are actually very different. The easiest way to think about it? A Wedding Chaperone guides the traditions. A Wedding Day Assistant manages the d