Always wear earrings, at the very least. Need we say more? 
 
The Phoenix in Chinese mythology that symbolizes the union of a male and a female and is a sign of harmony, prosperity, and virtue often seen in decorations for royal ceremonies and weddings.
 
 
 
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穿金戴银 chuān jīn dài yín
形容妆饰打扮非常华贵。
Richly bedecked, dripping with gold and silver.